Quick Fix Friday: How To Treat Cradle Cap

Quick Fix Friday: How To Get Rid Of Cradle Cap

Welcome to Quick Fix Friday! The blog post of the week where I share a tiny tip that has helped me survive with my baby twins. Sometimes, in the delirious, sleep-deprived haze, it’s the little things that stop you from snot crying over spilled breast milk (do you REALISE how long it takes to express that stuff?? Anyway…).

Here is my tiny tip of the week:

How To Treat Cradle Cap

As a parent, strange things come up all of the time that you’re having to deal with…runny poo, gunky eyes, teething rash…the list goes on. One thing we had to deal with was cradle cap. For anyone who hasn’t heard of this before, cradle cap is greasy, yellow scaly patches that sometimes appear on the scalps of young babies (you can find out more information about cradle cap on the NHS website).

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How to treat cradle cap. We found that rubbing coconut oil into our baby’s scalp twice a day helped to get rid of it.

Although not contagious or uncomfortable for babies, it’s not the nicest of things to have on the top of your baby’s head. If you follow me on our Foxfairy Twins Instagram Page you’ll know I tried a few things to help get rid of the cradle cap. And the best product that helped us was…

Coconut oil!

This stuff is magical. I would gently rub it into my baby’s scalp twice a day. It only took a couple of weeks for the cradle cap to completely disappear! It also makes them smell delightful too.

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Takeover Tuesday: How To Cope With Newborn Twins

Takeover Tuesday: How To Cope With Newborn Twins  by Two Little Misters

 I can hardly believe it, but in just a couple of months, my twins will be turning two! This second year has gone far faster than the first, but I still haven’t forgotten the early days. As much as I tried to prepare myself for having two babies, there was still a huge adjustment period when they were born, and the learning curve continues!

Caring for two babies’ needs and responding to their individual likes and dislikes is massively rewarding, but it’s also hard work! Here are a few pieces advice I would offer to anyone with newborn twins.

You can’t always do it all and you can’t feel bad about it.

 With the best will in the world, and even with all the bouncers/swings/rockers and your house looking like a creche, you just can’t. Sometimes one baby does have to cry for a little bit whilst you are doing something else.  There might even be times when both will cry and you can’t figure out what’s wrong. And yes, you probably will feel like a mean mummy, but you are doing your best! There are also some things that have to be non-negotiable, like a daily shower (even if it is only 2 minutes to feel human again). It may sound harsh to some but there is nothing more you can do than your best.

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Don’t feel too guilty about taking little shortcuts that make life easier.

 The newborn stage is not forever (though it might feel like it at 4am when you’re still up with one or two colicky babies). So, if you need to have the odd takeaway to give you time to work on that mountain of laundry, do it.

 

Plan ahead where possible.

 It really helps to get organised where you can with twins. Not only do you have to pack a changing bag for two and no doubt manoeuvre a huge pram in and out of the car and house, but all the places you used to frequent are a new experience with two babies along for the ride. If you are heading to a shopping centre, for example (and especially if you are going it alone), it will be ten times more manageable if you can snag a parent and child parking bay. And it’s handy to know where the best changing facilities are, should you need them.

 

Get out for fresh air every day.

 When you’re running low on sleep and it takes so long to get everyone ready and out the door, it may be the last thing you feel like doing. But it can make the world of difference. People find twins fascinating and will always stop to talk to you. You will probably hear the same old clichés over and over, but you’ll never tire of people telling you how beautiful your babies are and how well you’re doing for getting out of the house!

 

And finally –

 There are some things you just can’t do on your own – and you only find out through experience.

 I discovered this when the car needed refuelling for the first time after my husband returned to work. I didn’t want to leave my babies locked in the car whilst I dashed to pay. Nor did I feel it would be safe to traipse across the forecourt with them. I ended up telephoning all the local service stations to see if any of them offered a ‘pay at pump’ service. None of them did. (In the end, I went to a garage with no other customers. I parked at the pump nearest the pay point and was very quick, but since then I have only filled up when someone else is with me!)

 

It is difficult at times, and I never shy away from admitting that when asked. But the trials and tribulations are overshadowed when you experience the huge sense of pride that goes along with nourishing and nurturing not one, but two small babies!

 

 

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Quick Fix Friday: How To Stop A Baby Rolling Over At Night

Quick Fix Friday: How To Stop A Baby Rolling Over At Night

Welcome to Quick Fix Friday! The blog post of the week where I share a tiny tip that has helped me survive with my baby twins. Sometimes, in the delirious, sleep-deprived haze, it’s the little things that stop you from snot crying over spilled breast milk (do you REALISE how long it takes to express that stuff?? Anyway…).

Here is my tiny tip of the week:

How To Stop A Baby Rolling Over At Night

As a parent, after a few months you finally start to feel like you kind of know what you’re doing. Routines start emerging and you know your baby’s cues. That is until they grow a little more, change the way they are doing things or learn a new skill. Then it’s back to the drawing board in search for the new solution.

It’s funny how you are pushing for your baby to meet the next pending milestone and then when they actually do it, you instantly regret it. We experienced this feeling last week, where Beatrice had finally learnt how to roll over onto her tummy. The bad news was that 1. She actually hates tummy time, so being on her front was not fun, and 2. She did not know how to roll back over onto her back. Problems.

Although I went from being a mumma who could leave her 5 month old twins on the floor and drink a ‘hot’ cup of coffee (lucky, I know) overnight I became a yoyo…up, down, up, down, turning Beatrice back onto her back as she wailed louder than a banshee as she miserably flapped on her tummy like a poorly seal. Now, I didn’t mind it because it is all a learning experience for her and she needs to struggle a little bit before she can actually turn herself back around. But what troubled me was bedtime. What if she rolls in her sleep? Will she be able to turn her head enough to breathe? What if I don’t hear her on the monitor? Worry, worry, worry.

That was when many lovely followers from our Foxfairy Twins Instagram Page suggested rolling up a towel and positioning it under the sheet like a ‘0’ so that she fitted in the middle. This way it would stop her from being able to roll onto her tummy. And guess what? It worked! So a massive, massive thank you for your help. You guys are the best 🙂

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How to stop your baby from rolling over at night.

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Quick Fix Friday: Baby Changing Stations

Quick Fix Friday: Baby Changing Stations

Welcome to Quick Fix Friday! The blog post of the week where I share a tiny tip that has helped me survive with my baby twins. Sometimes, in the delirious, sleep-deprived haze, it’s the little things that stop you from snot crying over spilled breast milk (do you REALISE how long it takes to express that stuff?? Anyway…).

Here is my tiny tip of the week:

Setting Up Baby Changing Stations Around Your Home

As I prepared for our new arrivals, I tried to plan for every eventuality (you’re not that surprised really are you?). I knew the likelihood of having a caesarean was quite high so I had that in my mind as I organised all of the baby paraphernalia around our home. Although I had taken a lot of pride in setting up my baby changing station in the nursery, I knew that after day 1 of walking up and down the stairs every 2 hours day and night to change a nappy was not going to last.

So to help ease the nappy changing fiasco I set up baskets of baby changing items around the house. These included: nappies, baby wipes, cream, nappy bags, 2 spare sleep suits and 2 spare vests (ready for any nappy leakage!). Pete laughed at me as I placed them around the house, but as soon as we had two 5 day old babies come home from hospital at 10.30pm, I can tell you he was rather grateful. It’s the small things I find that really help and this was one of them.

Setting up mini changing stations around your house can help with the endless day and night nappy changes.

Setting up mini changing stations around your house can help with the endless day and night nappy changes.

 

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Put mini baby changing baskets around your home so you can easily change your babies.

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Do you have any little tricks that helped to ease the nappy changing times?

 

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Quick Fix Friday: How To Make Nappy Changing Simple

Quick Fix Friday: How To Make Nappy Changing Simple

Welcome to Quick Fix Friday! The blog post of the week where I share a tiny tip that has helped me survive with my baby twins. Sometimes, in the delirious, sleep-deprived haze, it’s the little things that stop you from snot crying over spilled breast milk (do you REALISE how long it takes to express that stuff?? Anyway…).

Here is my tiny tip of the week:

How To Make Nappy Changing Simple

Setting up the changing area was one of my favourite jobs. Making sure every section was carefully planned and put together ready for the twins’ arrival created much anticipation (and calmed my inner OCD gremlin).

Once the twins were finally here, I quickly noticed that I was fumbling around with the nappy bags, trying to desperately capture the hideous nappy stink bomb before we got covered in that awful baby poo (how…HOW can it smell THAT bad??!). Being a twin mumma, double nappy changes meant I repeated this process many times a day. I was growing increasingly frustrated that I couldn’t open the nappy bag whilst wrestling with the babies (how come if you look away for a second they’ve managed to plunge their foot straight into the poo and spread it across the whole room?? UHHH?!). I needed a solution.

 

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How to make your nappy changing area organised and simple

 

That’s when I took one of my stationary tins and started using it as a miniature nappy bin. I would open the nappy bag and put it into the tin, ready to capture the next stink bomb. The great thing about using this is that you can put the nappy into the bag one handed, whilst attempting to control your baby’s unpredictable octopus legs. It’s the simple things in life that make it better, don’t you agree?

Do You Have Any Tricks?

Do you have any suggestions on how to make nappy changing time a little easier?

 

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Twin Night Time Feeding

Night Feeding Twins

If you have a new baby, you’re probably wondering what a typical night time feeding routine looks like. If you have twins, I am sure you are even more intrigued by how others are surviving. This is my experience of night time feeding twins.

If you follow my Foxfairy Twins Instagram stories you’ll know that sleep has been a tricky area for us. When you’re surrounded by young babies that sleep from 7pm – 7am (yes, I actually have a friend whose baby actually does sleep that long. Not bitter in the slighted) and endless information and guides which will advise you on how long a baby should sleep for, it’s no wonder this subject can be frustrating for a parent.

Someone once said to me ‘you don’t know what the word tired means until you have a baby’ and gosh were they right. Before babies I was a serious napper and could fall asleep in 10 seconds for little bit of shut eye. I also needed my 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep at night else I would go from being Miss Honey to Miss Trunchball. Not pretty.

Night feeding with twins. Once the babies have been put to bed, do not take them out of their room to feed at night. This helps them to stay a little sleepy. I use the curved cushions to prop the babies up, feed them and then put them straight back down to sleep.

Night feeding with twins. Once the babies have been put to bed, do not take them out of their room to feed at night. This helps them to stay a little sleepy. I use the curved cushions to prop the babies up, feed them and then put them straight back down to sleep.

Thrown into the new whirlwind of having two newborn babies and well, you can imagine the shock. Feeding every 2 hours to begin with (am I the only one who didn’t realise that it means every 2 hours after you BEGAN the previous feed, not from when they finish? This means you could start feeding at 2.45am, the babies take almost an hour to feed, then include the nappy changes and settle back down to sleep, that takes you up to 4am, only to be awoken 45 minutes later for the next feed. It. Is. Horrendous. Now I understand why sleep deprivation is used as a form of torture).

The only reason Pete and I survived this newborn demand was because we took it in shifts to look after the babies. As I was expressing and topping up with formula it allowed Pete to help me feed them (see my previous posts about Feeding Twins for more information about how we did this). We would each watch the babies for 6 hours so the other one could sleep for more than 45 minutes at a time. You would not believe how incredible you feel if you have been surviving on 3 disrupted hours of sleep to having a chunk of 3-5 hours of solid, precious sleep. It literally saved us from going insane. It also emphasised the importance of team work between Pete and I, especially in the early days.

Fast forward to month 3, we began our bedtime routine (see my post about Bathing Twins) in order to establish good bed time habits. Once they were in their cot for bed time we would only feed them in their bedroom, using the curved cushions to prop them up. Once finished, I would gently pat them on the back and put them straight back down to sleep. I would also only change their nappies if they were soiled. Apparently, at this stage it is common for babies to start needing less feeds throughout the night so therefore shouldn’t wake up as often for feeding. HA! Sorry, was that a funny joke? Our babies were certainly not ready to give up their night feeds at this time. And the fact that I knew some babies could, made me feel frustrated. All I wanted was to sleep for more than 3 hours at a time (Pete was back to work so it was harder to work in shifts now).

Swaddling can help a newborn baby to sleep. It mimics them being in the womb and helps them to feel safe and secure. It also stops them jolting and waking themselves up.

Swaddling can help a newborn baby to sleep. It mimics them being in the womb and helps them to feel safe and secure. It also stops them jolting and waking themselves up.

That’s when I started reading lots of different sleep guides on how to help your baby to sleep longer at night. Some suggested giving more milk throughout the day (our babies refused, or would just projectile vomit it back up, probably as a protest to stop making me overfeed them),  give a ‘top up dream feed’ where you feed the babies in their sleep at around 10 or 11 pm in order to help carry them through until the early hours (I tried this several times and I think I was actually disrupting their natural sleep cycle as they would then wake up after 2 or 3 hours for another feed. Greedy monsters) or when they do wake up for their 2am feed, try to pacify them for 10/15 minutes to get them used to having this feed later and in the end not need it until the early hours of the morning (HAVE YOU TRIED THIS WITH TWINS?? To pacify one baby when they’re screaming for a feed at 2am and you’re exhausted would be hard enough, but with TWO BABIES?! Not going to happen).

So guess what we did? Nothing. We just let them wake up for their night feeds. And guess what? It has gradually started to stretch out. At the moment, being 4 months old, they now have their 6pm bottle, go to bed, wake up at around 10.30-11pm, then wake up around 3-4am. It’s not perfect, but we are definitely going in the right direction. I am now feeling calmer about it (if still a little sleepy-eyed) but progress is being made. I am hoping that when we begin weaning and they put on more weight perhaps they will surprise me by sleeping through until 6am (am I asking too much? Maybe. But I can wish).

What Is Your Night Time Routine?

How does this compare with your little one’s night time feeding habits?

 

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Quick Fix Friday: How To Give Medicine To Reluctant Babies

Quick Fix Friday: How To Give Medicine To Reluctant Babies

Welcome to Quick Fix Friday! The blog post of the week where I share a tiny tip that has helped me survive with my baby twins. Sometimes, in the delirious, sleep-deprived haze, it’s the little things that stop you from snot crying over spilled breast milk (do you REALISE how long it takes to express that stuff?? Anyway…).

Here is my tiny tip of the week:

How  To Give Medicine To Reluctant Babies

As the week 8 inoculations were fast approaching, everyone kept telling me to buy baby calpol and give it to the twins straight after their jabs. This was to help control any potential fever. Being flustered over having to watch and comfort not just one baby as they get punctured with more holes than a sieve, but two, I was already slightly anxious. Now I also had to give calpol to two crying babies, in front of the nurse, as well. Great.

So, the nurse gave the first lot of injections and I got the medicine ready. Luckily the calpol came with a baby friendly syringe so this surely couldn’t be that hard. Baby crying, squirt medicine into baby’s mouth, baby swallow, happy baby.

But no.

As soon as I started to squeeze the calpol into Beatrice’s mouth, she automatically spat it back out. Hmmmm. Not what was supposed to happen. The nurse suggested squirting the medicine into the side of her cheek to help her swallow it. Again, Beatrice being the joker that she is (but I was not finding this funny), she spat it out again. What a madam.

This was not going to  work.

Of course over the next few days I was worried about her suffering with a temperature. This can’t happen every time! I had to think of a way to get her to swallow the calpol.

Isn’t it funny that these solutions always come to you at 2.43am? During the midst of a crying frenzy, Beatrice began to get a temperature. I needed to get her to take the medicine this time. That’s when I remembered that she sometimes liked to use my little finger as a dummy, which would automatically make her swallow. Could this be the solution??

So, I filled up the syringe, put it into the side of her cheek, squeezed a little bit of the purple goo into her mouth and quickly got her to suck on my knuckle. And as if by magic, she swallowed it straight away!

Hurrah! I had finally found a way to get her to take her medicine. I felt like I deserved a gold star (celebrate every win of course).

So, if you have trouble getting your baby to take their medicine, try getting them to suck on a dummy or your finger to encourage them to swallow it. I’d love to hear if this works for you!

*Since writing this post, I have also found that Francis needs distracting too in order to take his medicine. So as I squeeze the calpol into his mouth, I give him my finger to suck whilst blowing bubbles onto his hand. He think it’s hilarious and doesn’t realise that he has medicine in his mouth and will just swallow it. Woohoo!

Do You Have Any Solutions?

Do you have a baby that struggles to take their medicine? What tricks do you have to get them to take it?

 

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